The hijab as most of us know it, carries meaning, personal conviction, and an intimate connection to faith and identity. For Muslim women, the choice to take it on or off comes with a journey filled with layers of culture, spirituality, community, and self discovery. Hence, we all come to terms with the hijab in our own way, and regardless of the outcome, your journey is still beautiful. In this piece, we share voices of real Muslim women who have experienced both sides of the conversation: putting it on, and taking it off. 

1. The Journey of Putting it on

Choosing to wear the hijab can be filled with immense support and excitement from family, or the opposite. Whatever the case, be proud of yourself for taking a step towards the commands of Allah (SWT) and embracing modesty into your life. There may be external challenges from peers, cultural and societal misunderstandings, or pressure from family, but ultimately it offers a step towards values. Aya Al Hammoud, a student from Jordan, described her experience with putting on the hijab as a relief. She states, “I put it on due to inner iman and had overwhelming and emotional support from family. So far I see the hijab as part of identity, and I'm thankful for my love for the hijab and all the support from friends and family.” 

2. The Journey of Taking it Off

On the other side, removing the hijab is also a personal decision that does not always signal a departure from faith. Instead, it may reflect a shift in how they practice or express their spirituality. Some describe relief when removing it, while others mention emotional complexity. An anonymous source expressed that she took off the hijab since she put it on “young and not for the right reasons.” Hence, she struggled with it over time and deeply feared being misunderstood by family and the general Muslim community. Taking off the hijab, much like putting it on, can be an act of courage as it is a conscious step toward living one’s truth, even when it invites judgement or scrutiny. There should never be shame on someone for staying true to themselves and deciding to make their own decisions since we never know when we live in our own judgments. 

After all, the hijab carries layers of meaning and journeys in one's life. Both sides of the discussion are equally important to consider since it is common for people to be quick to judge rather than consider one's situation. Every choice made, whether to put it on or take it off, deserves respect, empathy, and understanding. We are all one Ummah deserving to have our voices heard and sins concealed.